How much do we put our bodies, our health, and ourselves into the hands of doctors we hardly know? How will they handle a certain situation? How much medical intervention do they think we need? How much is too much? Do you know her preferences; does she know yours? Take the time to ask questions and get the answers. Know and listen to your body. Make decisions about your birth instead of leaving it to the doctor’s discretion. Do you trust your doctor? Take the time to find a doctor that respects and honors your opinions.
To find out where your present doctor stands on issues important to you, pick two and ask him at your next visit. Have them written down and have a pen to write down his answers. You should never be made to feel like the questions you ask are unimportant or that you are rushed. You are finding out about your care.
Call and tell the receptionist you are looking for a new doctor and just want to talk to the doctor or midwife. Tell them again when you go to the office.
Emphasize you do not want or need an exam, you are simply going to talk. Have a list of questions ready. Be clear about your concerns and requests. Tailor your questions to what you need from your doctor or midwife. What are your issues? Do you want support for a VBAC? Do you want your birth to be a natural birth? It is always a good idea to know who the back-up doctors are and what their policies are. If you are pregnant, find out if your doctor/midwife has a vacation scheduled near your due date.
The above questions were taken from Diana Korte’s book "The VBAC Companion" The Expectant Mother’s Guide to Vaginal Birth After Cesarean. A must have book.
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